My hands are
shaking, I’m sweating, my sight is getting blurry, after almost a week without
posting on the blog, and I’m having blog post withdrawal symptoms! I have been
updating Facebook, but I stayed away from the blogs. I didn’t even read some of
my favourite fellow blogger’s post nor commented on anything… today will be a
day for catching up.
Yesterday was an emotionally
charged day… Julie was being interviewed for a position at the University of Ottawa!
She has been working
on a 3 year contract in Moncton
(New-Brunswick). We were very happy for
her to have gotten this opportunity but we were sad to see her working so far
from our hearts. As of now, her contract is ending at the end of March and might
not be renewed.
Since she has
accumulated leave, her last full week of work should be this week, next week
she has 2 days of sitting on the senate committee where they are about to vote on
some really important policy changes at the University of Moncton.
At this point, I
don’t think anyone in Moncton
is expecting her to do much work… however she is still doing her normal work
load and is professional till the end. She also has to juggle between her
priorities and her employer’s.
We are not worried
about her, she has money put aside in an emergency fund in case she loses her
job and she will also be eligible for unemployment for almost a year. We also
know that she will not be unemployed long.
I remembered she took ONE summer off after obtaining her bachelor
degree, but has been working ever since. Even while undertaking her master
degree she was working. When she
completed it, she had money in the bank… and was NOT in debt.
Before leaving for Moncton after her master,
she paid cash for a car and still had money in the bank that would make people
in their fifties, jealous! What I’m really saying is that she is one
responsible woman!
Yesterday her
interview was being done via skype. I assume all of you know what skype is… She
had first asked her boss if she could do this interview in one of the conference
room. Being a prepared person, she brought a laptop, headsets (she had 2
pairs), extra video cam and in case there was a problem with the headsets, the
laptop has a built-in speaker.
She got called at
the pre-arranged time but she couldn’t hear them and they had problem hearing
her… not the best way to start an interview! They ended up calling her and using
skype only to see each other. On the Ottawa
side there was a committee for the interview, so I imagine they had a speaker
phone to be able to hear Julie.
After the interview,
Julie wrote to us that it didn’t go as well as she would have thought. You know
when you are interviewed you always feel like you failed, like you could have
said more or said something differently… but Daddy knows best and I was sure
she did just great and the next hour proved me right!
An hour after her
interview, she received an email asking her to come in person for an interview and
to give a presentation in Ottawa;
on Friday March 7th. They will
foot the bill for her air fare. This is when her priorities were being tested…
She had the senate committee meeting on March 6 and 7th and now she
was asked to be in Ottawa
for the 7th… She had to decide whether she would ask the interviewer
if she could reschedule the interview in Ottawa
or not go to the Senate committee meeting. To me, it was not even close to being
a choice. At this point, she has to take all the chances she can get. She would
have been happy to stay in Moncton
and have a long career but since it will probably not happen, she has to put
herself first.
I see it a little
like a hockey player, once he is told that he is being traded to another team
he will not be playing that night. He is
expected to go to the dressing room and pick up his equipment. It doesn’t mater
if he loveD his former team! He is now moving on and has to set his priorities straight,
himself first, his future team second and third clear his locker!
After several hours
of emailing back and forth with us, Julie decided to skip one day of the committee
meeting and come to Ottawa
for her formal interview and presentation. Her flight is already booked; I
think she is really excited to be close to Mom, paw and her little sister, who
happens to be working at the University
of Ottawa.
If she doesn’t get
the job… there might be a homeless shelter in Julie’s future! Ya right!
If they are footing the air bill ... they were duly impressed for sure! tension for us on my end too ... big week for Stephanie...
ReplyDeleteWell? Richard ... here's to our kids ;) salute!
I'm joining you... Salute to our kids :)
DeleteIt's going to be a looooong week for both of us!
I'm sure that Julie will get the job in Ottawa. That would be perfect. All the family close to Christiane and you.
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Hugs, JB
Yes Julia we would love to keep our kids close by but the most important thing is that they are happy with where they are.
DeleteMoncton is not out of the Julie's race, she was told this afternoon that her contract was re-new for 3 years... and just to get a bit more confusion, she got a call from the university of Sherbrooke, they want to have her for an interview!
Poor Julie I don't think she will be getting any un-employment check anytime soon :)
Hugs
That sounds so much like what two of my daughters went through. They both now are doctors. The oldest is in Scotland and is a Dr of Social Studies in Anthropology and teaches PHDs students and the other one who lives in Nepean, Ottawa is a Dr of Chemistry. Both put themselves through university on their own without any debts either. They both got so many scholarships and bursaries that they had to refuse some and took the best. They started University during the summer in grade 11 and got extra credits before they even graduated from High School and worked their butts off every weekend while their friends took the weekend off or went on vacations. My oldest is 47 and the youngest is 39. They both have travel the world and still have great jobs they love. It's more than I can say for myself, lol... At 67 I should be retired instead, I get up at the wee hours of the morning to feed calves and shovel s***.
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JB
She sounds like an amazing young woman; a force to be reckoned with, and heading in the right direction from such a young age. You both did a great job with those two girls, and you should be proud! And it'll be nice to have her closer to all of you.
ReplyDeleteMartha you are right, we are really proud of our girls but I sincerely think that we had little to do with the way they are now blossoming... to put it in something you relate to... they are like flowers... some flowers need so much care and attention just to bloom a really short time. Some other once the sun come out, all you have to do is keep them warm with your love, they bloom all summer long... We were definitively blessed with the latest one :)
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